Remember, while you’re focusing and caught up in the blame game you’re not focusing on your life. Yes, it can be hard to let it go. But where we get caught up is in thinking that we have to forgive the person involved. That we have to hang on to our anger forever. We don’t. We can forgive but not reconcile with the other person. Yes we can let them go and move on in our lives. It is possible even when it feels it isn’t. We can have the life we deserve. When we focus on blame we stay in victim mode and still feel we are not good enough. We are good enough! So for today chose what you want to focus on very carefully.