Being judgmental will only create more stress in your life. We simply can’t relax. Why can’t we live and let live? Why can’t we respect the other person? Is it something about ourselves that we don’t want to admit we dislike? Why do we need to create false scenarios in our heads that can keep us so busy we fail to enjoy our life. If something or someone is going to harm us we will know and respond accordingly. We don’t have to create scenes in our heads in the meantime to prepare for  possible outcomes that simply won’t ever happen to us. We can instead allow people to get on with their lives while we get on we ours.