Losing these words from your dictionary is so important, even more so if you have kids as we need to model good habits for them. We may not be good at everything in life but we can still keep trying. Sometimes, we say I can't, when we mean we haven't learnt how to do something yet! We are all capable of learning, may be at a different pace than someone else, but we can do it. If you find yourself struggling to learn, ask for help, never be ashamed of doing that.