If someone in your life is nagging you or telling you, you need to change that should be a red light for you. You have to ask is this really about me or is this about them?

If after considering their opinion (I’m assuming it’s someone close to you that your trust) and more importantly your own opinion and you decide not to change be happy about your decision. This is your life, not anyone else’s.

The only person who can truly change you is you! When you try to change to match someone else’s ideal you usually end up failing and miserable. When you feel in your mind that now is the time to change your life then, by all means, ask for help and the opinions of others if you want to. If not, then leave others to their opinions and stick with what you want.