Negative people manipulate us into doing things we wouldn’t normally do. We feel we have to say yes to them and then feel deprived or bad about ourselves afterwards. We can choose at that moment to say NO too. We can walk away from these people. We can choose to let these people go from… Read More I Can Choose To Be Manipulated Or Motivated To Let That Person Go.

This is your life, never allow anyone how you will live your life. Make your dreams, set your goals and just take a small step every day towards those dreams and goals. Ditch all the negative people in your life, only have supporters surrounding you.  

When we do these things we encourage and embrace a positive life. We have to plan these things into our lives and make room for them. We need to journal about them and show gratitude for them too. So for today how can we encourage and embrace our life to the fullest?    

Sometimes it is hard to feel happiness in our lives. We fail to see what we already have and feel the joy that this brings us. We look to tomorrow instead to bring us an elusive happiness that fails to arrive. So for this day, or even just for this moment, try to see something… Read More Just For Today… Be Happy

There are always some habits we wish to unlearn in life, bad habits if you wish, these are things we have learnt as we have grown and so can be unlearnt. Some are not so easy to replace as others but none the less we can still do. The first place to start is by… Read More Habits Are Actions That Can Be Unlearnt.

I would have said be grateful for 3 things every day in your life and write them down. But one is a good place to start. If you’re feeling down then making note of what you already have in life will literally change your mind into a more positive frame. So for today ask yourself:… Read More At Least Once a Day Be Grateful For One Thing In Your Life

Yes, we will make choices we regret and do things we will regret also, that I’m afraid can’t be helped. But always ask for forgiveness and forgive yourself too. Try at the least to think about the consequences of a choice before making it so at the very least you will end up not regretting… Read More Always Make The Choices You Won’t Regret.

This goes back to a question I’ve asked before: How Important Is It? Do I really need to hold on to every little thing that has ever happened to me? Can I let some of them go? Why are you holding onto some of the grudges still today many years after the fact? I am… Read More Remember If You’re Holding A Grudge   The Other Guy Might Just Be Out Dancing.

So how do you keep busy loving your life? What about living your life? Are you being your authentic self? Or are you living someone else’s dreams? Having a regular check-in with yourself will help keep you on track to live the best life possible.  

Yes we will have regrets as we get older but we also need to let these regrets go. We need to forgive ourselves and move on. Regrets only hold us back. If it’s something you think you can change then do so. Take that trip, make contact with that family member or friend, do that… Read More Regret Nothing!