When we have to let go of a dream or goal we feel we have lost something very precious to us. We grieve for that loss too. We feel guilty over giving up. But we shouldn’t! We have nothing to feel guilty about we have simply said “Okay that didn’t work out, but I’m not… Read More You Are Not Giving Up You Are Starting Over
This is about stepping out of your comfort zone and saying yes Or no. Sometimes we have to learn to say no, especially if we admit to ourselves we are people pleasers. But it also means learning to say yes to things we wouldn’t normally say yes to. Remember Yes and No are full statements and… Read More Be Willing To Take Risks To See How Far You Can Go!
When we come out of denial it can be a scary place. We now realise that we must turn the light inwards and examine ourselves, all our fears, shame, guilt etc come to the surface. It’s a hard road for a while but well worth it in the end. The easiest way to deal with… Read More You May Not Be There Yet! But You’re Closer Than Ever Before.
When we find ourselves feeling down we need to have a plan already in place for such days. We need to bring a little light into those days. We can work a little harder on our self-care and give ourselves some extra TLC. Having a mental health toolbox already prepared will help. What will you… Read More Be The Light In Your Own Life.
Yes we will have regrets as we get older but we also need to let these regrets go. We need to forgive ourselves and move on. Regrets only hold us back. If it’s something you think you can change then do so. Take that trip, make contact with that family member or friend, do that… Read More Regret Nothing!
When we seek approval we do ourselves an injustice. We’re saying our opinion doesn’t matter only that of someone else. Why do you need someone’s approval of what you do or live your life? It’s your life after all not theirs. It’s okay to ask for help or ask for an opinion but never justify… Read More Let Go Of The Fear Of Other’s Opinions.
So what are your ambitions in life? What do you seek as dreams and goals? Right now this is your purpose. So seek them out, make plans take the small steps necessary to make your goals come true. But never be in a hurry to just rush from one thing to the ext. Savour each… Read More Live Life With Purpose, Never In A Hurry And Always Seeking The Next Adventure.
It’s amazing how when we find ourselves doing something we are passionate about we never feel bored. We always have the time to do it. We get so caught up in doing it that we forget our problems. Find your something to get passionate about. It doesn’t matter what it is, just find it.
Never let others tell you-you can’t do something. You can do anything you set your mind to. We are often guilty of accepting other people’s words as gospel when in fact that’s not the case. Other people don’t know what you are capable of when you set your mind to do it, only you do.… Read More Never Give Up You’re Harder To Beat Than That!
Trying to please everyone else is very draining on all levels. Stop doing it. It’s not going to work. Just be yourself. Your true family and friends will still be there for you. They only want you to please one person. Yourself!
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