Make Sure You Affirm Yourself
We are all great at affirming others. We tell them how great they are. What a good job they are doing etc. But what about us? We need to pat ourselves on the back at the end of every day too.
We are all great at affirming others. We tell them how great they are. What a good job they are doing etc. But what about us? We need to pat ourselves on the back at the end of every day too.
It’s okay to pursue your goals. But don’t wait until… (insert the condition you have placed on yourself here) to love yourself. Remember, you are already someone. If you want others to love you unconditionally then you have to love yourself unconditionally first.
Sometimes we can get caught up in a feeling. We may not be willing to acknowledge this. We may not even be aware of it at first. We can express our feelings by trying to control ourselves or others. When we discover any of this we can then feel guilty, and tell ourselves we shouldn’t… Read More Don’t Get Stuck In A Feeling
Sometimes it’s not good for your sanity to be so helpful or nice to people. Sometimes that only draws you in further into drama and the insanity of others. Instead you owe it to yourself to disengage and let others take responsibility for themselves.
You, and only you, decide who or what you want to become. You can help create this by using affirmations. These are part of your small actionable steps on your path. You can create these affirmations very simply. Pick one area of your life you wish to work on. Then write an affirmation starting with… Read More Who Or What Do You Want To Become?
What roles do you play in life? In work, with friends, family or your partner? Each one will require you to adjust your personality differently, use different traits and talents. Each are an equally valid part of you, but sometimes these parts don’t work together well. One part may take you in a direction your… Read More Reflect On What Roles You Play
Being aware and in touch with your true self will help you trust and listen to yourself first more often. Get still, remember you are enough, you are wise, trust this and begin to listen to yourself.
Faith and hope isn’t just about the future. It is about your present too. Being grateful for who and where you are now is part of having that faith and hope for now and the future. So for today, how can you show gratitude for where you are now?
We can become enraged, fearful, deflated, jealous, etc., when we are in denial in life. But we need to own our feelings, express them if need be, but perhaps take a moment to breathe and centre ourselves first. Remembering instead that it’s all a gift.
Know that there is a difference between fighting a problem and pushing against the resistance it offers. When we fight the problem we usually only delay the surrender and the solution. But when we feel the feelings we can use these to motivate us to surrender, detach, take care of ourselves and ask for help… Read More Know That There Is A Difference
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