Some situations are ideal we may like what we dealing with. Some are not so ideal, may be we shouldn’t be in this situation in the first place. May be we feel ashamed and can’t leave as a result. Don’t let the shame, fear or guilt hold you back. Talk to others, take advice, read up or access information from other sources. But know this, it’s your life, your home, your career, your relationships, your health. It’s up to you to decided what is best for you.