The More You Try To Control The Less You Do.
I spent many years trying to control my life. I thought foolishly I was succeeding But I wasn't. I missed out on so many wonderful things going on around me. I needed to get out of my own way and let go. I found so much serenity when I learnt to do just that - LET GO.
Trying to control everything and everyone around you will only lead to frustration and heartache. You can not control anyone else but yourself. So why not just surrender control. Figure out what you want to do in your life and get on with it.
Let others take on their own responsibilities, why deny them this experience? You can not please everyone so as the song goes just gotta please yourself. That's okay letting others fail, this is part of your respect for them that says: I know you can succeed, I know you can do this!. Let them, they deserve your respect for trying, failing -maybe- but also succeeding all by themselves.
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